For him · Difficulties · chapter 24 of 37
The right way to receive discipline without arguing
Punishment only works if you take it all the way — and it’s easy to ruin: argue, explain yourself, or act untouched. Those are just ways of keeping some power back.
The order is simple: agree, thank, accept. No “but I…”, no reasons, no reminders that you tried. If you think the call was unfair, save it for another day when everyone’s calm.
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