I'm Vera. For five years I've been the one in charge: my husband wears a cage, keeps the house, takes his punishments — and we're both happier than we were. This is what it actually looks like: not scenes, but daily life. Names and details changed.

For three weeks he saved points in my notebook. It came to nineteen, I said it out loud — and he brought the foot cream.

He has met me on his knees at the door for six years. That evening a courier rang, then the bank, and I walked past him and forgot.

I said “not today” and saw his thumb rubbing his knuckle. Three minutes of inspection in the hall, coat on: chafing under the ring he had kept quiet about for…

Tuesday, full clean: my husband kneels at the radiator in a thong and cage while I run a finger along the shelves.
Everything in these stories, laid out properly: how to step into the role, how to hold power through daily life, how not to burn out — and 41 chapters for him on serving so that it's easy for you.