How to Ask for What You Need in FLR

You have the right to speak — otherwise it’s not a dynamic, it’s a guessing game she’ll eventually tire of. But there’s a difference between saying it and pushing, and it comes down to whether you leave the decision with her.

Time rule: speak with a clear head. Not in a scene, not right after, and not in the hour when the drop hits. The best moment is an ordinary day, a calm conversation, outside the bedroom.