Domestic servitude: make daily chores his role

Daily life is the main field of the dynamic. Scenes are rare, but dishes, dinner, your belongings and your car are there every single day; this is where submission stops being a game and turns into his actual life.

Dress him for service. Housework in an apron and stockings is no longer “helping around the house”; it becomes a role he cannot step out of. He is not a husband lending a hand—he is the help, and the sight of it reminds him of that every minute. At first let him play it up, even overdo it; that is how the role sinks in and becomes him.

Fix the list by frequency. Every day: coffee at your waking, dinner, dishes done at once, floors, bathroom, trash. The simple rule is that everything looks clean the moment you need it. Every week: fresh sheets, floors, dusting, deep kitchen clean, laundry with ironing and putting away. Once a month: windows, oven, light fixtures, washing the car. Each item has its own deadline—not “sometime,” but “coffee by eight,” “kitchen clean before bed.”