How to Have Sex While He's Locked in Chastity

The cage doesn’t cancel sex — it changes the rules. Intimacy happens only when you truly want it: not because of his hints or because “it’s been a while.” His job is to serve and wait, not to beg; anything begged for stops being your decision. Unlock the cage when you feel like it: let him warm you up, enter you if you allow. And the moment you’ve had yours, have him lock himself back up with his own hands. That final click matters more than everything before it: he returns himself to denial, and it cuts deeper than any words.

The first time is hard for him — his body wants more, yet he’s sent back into the cage. But with each time after, something shifts: he starts wanting your finish, not his own. Aroused and unfinished, he leaves your closeness not short-changed but filled — his goddess got what she wanted, and the goal is met. Compersion stops being a rare insight and becomes his normal state: he lives on your pleasure all the time, not his own now and then.

After your orgasm he cleans you with his tongue — not a chore, but a gift you let him give; the same tongue tidies the toys you used. You don’t even have to open the cage: on some evenings a vibrator and his tongue are all you need, and all he needs is one line afterward: “You worked hard tonight. With your tongue. The rest wasn’t required.” Penetration is only when you want it: if you choose, you let him in; if not, he stays outside. Whether he comes or not is yours to decide, and it isn’t up for discussion.

Every three to five such evenings give him a ruined orgasm, milking, or pegging — not as a reward, but for health: the prostate needs relief. Emptying the body without sweetness leaves desire untouched, so he still reaches for you.