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How to Introduce Rimming in Your FLR

How to Introduce Rimming in Your FLR

This is the practice where the barrier is usually not with him, but with you. He actually wants it: for a submissive it’s the highest form of worship—access to the place no one else is allowed, service to the most private part of the body. What almost always stops it is your own “what if he finds it disgusting” and “it’s indecent to ask for something like that.”

Let’s take it piece by piece. The squeamishness here is cultural, not biological: we were all taught that this spot is shameful, and nothing more. It doesn’t disgust him—on the contrary, the more intimate and “forbidden,” the stronger the charge; that’s exactly the mechanism that makes humiliation work. He thinks about this, believe me, far longer than you do — and in terms far more flattering to you. And you don’t have to ask: you’re not asking, you’re allowing—the difference is fundamental.

And if you still doubt whether it disgusts him — don't ask; look at him at that moment. To him you are a goddess and this is the altar; no other practice charges him like it: a wild, cage-straining erection is guaranteed from the first second, and it hurts him too, which only makes it sweeter.

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