For him · Body and denial · chapter 22 of 37
How to prepare for strap-on training week by week
This is the area where rushing gets punished at once and patience pays off fast. Preparation happens ahead of time and on your own, not on the evening she decides. Showing up unprepared simply shifts the whole chore onto her.
The rule is straightforward: size increases over weeks, not in a single evening. Begin small, grow used to wearing it calmly and for long stretches, then move up.
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