How to take up less space beside your wife

Submission shows itself not in words but in how much space you occupy. A man by habit sprawls, speaks louder, steps through the door first and holds a gaze. All of that needs to be unlearned, and she notices it well before any rituals begin.

Start with height: her eyes must always be above yours. When she stands, you kneel or sit lower. When she sits, you take the floor.