Lesson: Anticipating Her Needs Before She Asks

The highest level of service is when she never has to ask. Every request she makes out loud is your mistake, not her command: it means you didn’t notice in time.

This isn’t built on guesswork but on watching. Get into the habit of noticing what she does at the same time each day, and have the next thing ready half a step ahead: water on the nightstand before she reaches for a drink; the charger where she sits down; the throw when the room cools.