How to Write an FLR Marriage Contract

Everything you have discussed so far in the kitchen and in bed lives in the air — and dissolves in the air the moment he is tired, hurt or "didn't understand it that way". A contract puts it on paper. A word he signed weighs more than a word he said, and that is the only reason a contract is needed. Not for lawyers. For him.

Don't be put off by the word "contract". It isn't a legal document but a ritual and a reminder: two or three pages that state, point by point, how you live. You write it — yourself, by hand or on your phone — and it doesn't have to be pretty. It has to be exact.

What goes in it

1. Who is who. You are the Mistress; he is your slave (your dog, your boy — whatever you call him), and this isn't a game for one evening — it's how this house runs. How he addresses you, how you address him.

2. The key. He wears the cage at all times. The key is yours. It comes off only by your hand and your decision; hygiene on a schedule you set. Orgasm only with your permission; masturbation without it is a violation and a punishment.

3. Service. What he does every day without being reminded: the house, the food, your feet in the evening, everything you write in.