Holidays of the Dynamic: Locktober and the Calendar of Power

Your dynamic can have a calendar of its own — and it is a tool, not a toy. A holiday differs from ordinary days in one way: you don’t declare it each time — it arrives on its own, and it is awaited. The waiting does half of your work for you: he starts preparing for October back in August, and all that time the dynamic runs without a single effort from you.

The main holiday of the worldwide calendar is Locktober: the whole of October locked, no orgasms, no negotiations. Its power is in the crowd: he knows that these same weeks thousands of others are locked too, and unlocking on the twentieth means dropping out in front of everyone — even if “everyone” is just you.