Stopping Pressure Without Losing Your Evening

You’re sitting with a glass of wine, the evening yours, and he’s already shifting from foot to foot beside you: “come on, let’s go.” It’s the most common form of pressure from below. On the surface he’s submitting, but in practice he’s pulling you out of your own evening and into his. Give in once and he’s the one setting the tempo.

Your evening is not foreplay. The glass of wine isn’t a cue for anything else; it’s simply your glass of wine.