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Small Daily Moments That Keep FLR Alive

Small Daily Moments That Keep FLR Alive

The spark isn’t kept by rare “scenes”, but by the small flashes every day: five seconds of power between chores carries more weight than an hour-long session once a month. Weave them into what’s already happening, not on top of it.

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