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The Denial Curve: When Desire Peaks and Dips

0 7 14 21 30 days without orgasm desire PEAK dip rise plateau decline

A diagram, not measurements: the wave shape repeats for many, but the timing is individual.

After release everything moves in waves. The first day or two is a crash: the kink is switched off, he’s sluggish and cool, and nothing should be decided in that window. By the third or fourth day he comes back, and desire starts to climb.

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Further in this chapter: The peak usually hits around the second week

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